Cosmo guide to online dating
You’re doing the least amount of work, but secretly expecting the most.
I’ve jokingly called this behavior “obligaswiping,” because it’s inspired by an obligation to prove to myself that I’m “putting myself out there.” Really, I just want the cheap and easy route: a bunch of matches with hot guys I could “totally date if I wanted to” but who I don’t care enough about to follow through.
" A specific question about something someone will remember with fondness is a lot more interesting to answer than, "How's your week going? Based on a not at all peer-reviewed study, 90 percent of people using online dating apps are bored out of their minds. You're the princess, he's the prince, and you call out to him: "Oh, won't some hero come save me from this stifling castle keep!
" Also, maybe you also loved that book/movie/food item, and now you guys have something in common and are going to be watching Foreign Thrillers with Strong Female Leads together forever! " It's a little unorthodox, but anything's better than "Sup?
Pick one thing on his profile and make fun of him for it.
Did he really need to have his shirt off at that block party? Type this sentence verbatim: "So, where should we get that drink?
One time, Joe's ex (who he’s on friendly terms with) mentioned she was taking a date to Joe’s friend’s restaurant.